A Punjabi wedding is rarely one event. It is a run of functions over several days, and the same vendors, such as the photographer, the dhol players and the decorator, often move between them. Customs differ between families, regions, and between Sikh and Hindu Punjabi families, so treat this as a planning map rather than a rulebook, and ask your elders which ceremonies your family follows.
Before the Wedding: Roka, Chunni and Sagan
The roka marks the families' agreement to the match, and the chunni ceremony, often combined with the sagan or engagement, is when the groom's family welcomes the bride with a chunni and gifts. These are usually smaller family events.
- Vendors: a caterer or restaurant, a photographer, sweets and gifts, and trousseau packaging for the shagun.
Mehndi
The bride's hands and feet are decorated with mehndi while family and friends sing and dance. It is usually relaxed, colourful and full of music.
- Vendors: mehndi artists (book enough artists for the guests who want designs, not just the bride), a decorator for a bright, casual setup, a DJ or dhol, light food and chaat counters, and a photographer.
Sangeet
An evening of songs and dance performances by both families, ranging from a ladies' sangeet at home to a full stage event.
- Vendors: a DJ, a choreographer for family performances, stage, sound and lighting, a decorator, a caterer, and a photographer and videographer.
Jaago
Usually on the night before the wedding, relatives, often the bride's or groom's maternal family, carry a decorated pot of lit lamps (the jaago) through the neighbourhood, singing and dancing to wake everyone for the celebrations.
- Vendors: dhol players, sometimes folk singers, a decorated jaago pot, and a photographer. Check local rules on late-night music.
The Wedding Morning: Chooda, Kaleere and Vatna
On the wedding morning, the bride's maternal uncles traditionally give her the chooda, a set of red and ivory bangles, and family members tie the kaleere to them. The vatna or maiyan, a turmeric paste ritual, also happens on the wedding day or just before, on both sides.
- Vendors: a makeup artist (schedule the bride's makeup after the morning rituals and allow travel time to the ceremony), a photographer who starts early, and light breakfast catering.
The Groom's Side and the Baraat
The groom's sehra is tied, he may ride a decorated mare (ghodi), and the baraat sets off with music and dancing. At the venue, the milni brings relatives of both families together to meet and exchange garlands and gifts.
- Vendors: a ghodi or a decorated car, dhol players or a band, garlands and milni gifts, and a photographer and videographer with the baraat.
The Ceremony: Anand Karaj or Pheras
For a Sikh wedding, the Anand Karaj takes place in the presence of the Guru Granth Sahib, with the couple walking around it during the four laavan. It is arranged with the gurdwara, which sets its own rules, such as covered heads for everyone, and often serves langar. For a Hindu Punjabi wedding, the pheras take place around the sacred fire under a mandap.
- Vendors: for an Anand Karaj, book the gurdwara date early, and check its rules for photography and decoration. For pheras, book a pandit and a mandap decorator.
Doli and Reception
The doli, or vidaai, is the emotional farewell as the bride leaves with the groom's family. The reception that follows is often the largest event, especially for friends and colleagues.
- Vendors: a decorated car for the doli, then a venue, caterer, decorator, DJ, makeup artist and photographer for the reception.
Vendor Checklist at a Glance
| Vendor | Functions they usually cover |
|---|---|
| Photographer and videographer | Almost every function |
| Dhol players | Mehndi, sangeet, jaago, baraat |
| DJ | Mehndi, sangeet, reception |
| Mehndi artists | Mehndi |
| Makeup artist | Wedding morning, reception, and often family members |
| Caterer | Most functions |
| Decorator and tent house | Mehndi, sangeet, wedding, reception |
| Choreographer | Sangeet |
| Car rental or ghodi | Baraat, doli |
| Pandit | Hindu pheras |
| Gifts and trousseau packaging | Roka, chunni, milni, shagun |
Tips to Save Money and Avoid Double Booking
- Book one decorator for several functions and ask them to reuse elements, such as flowers or lighting, across events.
- Hold mehndi and sangeet at the same venue, or on the same evening.
- Agree the dhol players' hours across all functions in one booking.
- Share the full function schedule with your photographer, makeup artist and caterer, so their timings don't clash.
- Confirm gurdwara or pandit timings before fixing anything else on the wedding day.
Finding Vendors for a Punjabi Wedding
On Wedding Bharat you can browse photographers, mehndi artists, DJs, decorators, tent houses and wedding cars by city, and contact them directly on WhatsApp. To keep every function on track, use the planning checklist and the budget planner.
Frequently Asked Questions
How many functions does a Punjabi wedding have?
It depends on the family. Many weddings include a roka, a chunni or engagement, mehndi, sangeet, jaago, the wedding ceremony and a reception, often spread over several days. Some families combine or skip functions.
What is a jaago?
A night-time celebration, usually before the wedding, where relatives carry a decorated pot of lit lamps through the neighbourhood, singing and dancing, often with dhol players.
What happens at the chooda ceremony?
On the wedding morning, the bride's maternal uncles traditionally give her the chooda, a set of red and ivory bangles, and family members tie kaleere to them.
Do I need a pandit for an Anand Karaj?
No. The Anand Karaj is a Sikh ceremony held in the presence of the Guru Granth Sahib and arranged with the gurdwara. A pandit is needed for Hindu ceremonies such as the pheras.
Can I contact wedding vendors directly on Wedding Bharat?
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